Traveling back "Home"

Home: a vital sensitive core


Table of Content:

  1. What is “Home”?

  2. Quick recaps of time in Indonesia, Vietnam, Tokyo, Honolulu, Houston, and New Orleans

  3. Finally settled back in Wyoming (for now)

Jakarta, Indonesia with President Jokowi

Quick Recap in Indonesia:

  • Departed for my Fulbright grant in Indonesia
    Sept 2017-Sept 2018

  • Research site:

    Wakatobi National Park

  • Moved 7 times.

  • Lived in 4 cities: Jakarta, Semarang, Salatiga, &

  • Scuba Diving Heaven &
    Logged more than 40 dives

  • Certified Rescue Diver & Science of Diving Certification

  • Certified low-intermediate in reading, writing, and speaking Indonesian

  • Forever friends, who taught me Indonesian slang & ways of life

  • Gained like 10 pounds thanks to all the delicious deep fried foods and ice cream

Vũng Tàu, Vietnam

me & my kindred spirited grandma

Quick recap in Vietnam

  • Sept 2018 - Dec 2018 (3 months)

  • Lived in Saigon (HCMC) & Vũng Tàu

  • Spent time getting to know my dad’s side of the family in his home town of Vũng Tàu

    Discovered my grandma and I are kindred spirits

  • Scuba Diving in Phú Quốc

  • Logged 7 dives

  • Surprisingly a lot of coral

  • Saw my first ever cuttlefish (they’re huge!)

  • Wyoming family came to visit

  • Completed Vietnamese language classes

  • Learned to drive a scooter in crazy Vietnam traffic

  • Met up with friends from Denver

  • Gained 5 pounds thanks to all the delicious, non-stop eating and napping.

Shinjuku, Tokyo, Japan

Official flight back home:


  • Durian binge before flight = stomach ache on the plane & puke right before landing.

  • 13 hour layover in Tokyo

  • Spent 3 hours sleeping in the airport first

  • I felt so sick & tired. I almost didn’t go out of the airport because of thought induced anxiety about my baggage, getting lost, not knowing the language, etc.

  • Took me almost 1 hour to convince myself to JUST GO!

  • Japan is known for their planners, so I set out to an IG recommended stationary store: Tokyo Hands

  • Quickly found a place to exchange money, luggage storage, and the train ticket and station I needed to go to. (loved this part about travel) Kinda like
    problem solving with no idea how to do it except intuition & confidence guiding me.

  • Re-ignited my love for travel

  • The sights, sounds, smells, and inherent excitement for new experiences

  • Spent 3 hours walking around Shinjuku and bought the most perfect planner.

  • Spent 2 hours traveling on the train and loved every minute of it.

  • Thank You Japan for the new experiences. Now, please re-join the International Whaling Commission IWC and stop killing whales and dolphins. Thanks.

Honolulu, Hawaii

Honolulu, Hawaii

Honolulu for Christmas Eve

Waikiki Beach, Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

Quick Recap in Honolulu

  • 13 hour layover

  • Easily found the bus to Waikiki

  • Spent the day soaking up the sun

  • Reunion with college friends

  • Drove to lookout point in pic above

  • Ate local poke from the local grocery store

  • Inspired by my friend that Hawaii is totally
    an achievable dream

  • Found my new goal/ HOME

Houston, Texas, USA

Houston, Texas, USA

Houston for Christmas


Quick Recap in Houston

  • One month in Houston

  • Upon landing, skin immediately flaked and shriveled up because of change in latitude. (I am genetically made for equatorial climate)

    Quality time with Mom’s side of the family

  • Grocery stores in the U.S. are excessive

  • ALL US big box stores are excessive.

  • Forgot basic driving rules of the U.S.

  • Watched Ralph break the internet and it rocked my world because the main character struggled with finding her place of belonging and her home & being away from family #SOML

  • Ate all the delicious food: matcha soft serve, grilled oysters, crawfish, food truck tacos, macaroon ice cream, wedge salad, potato chips, banana foster soufflé, Whole Food’s famous TTLA (tempeh, tomato, lettuce, avocado) vegansandwich, sushi burrito, etc.

  • Quick 2 days solo road trip to Austin & ate the infamous Impossible burger (VEGAN burger)

Louisiana New Orleans crawfish.jpg

Quick Recap in New Orleans

  • Wedding of a dear big brother of mines

  • Visited more of my dad’s side of the family

    Spent time with my
    day 1 cousins

  • Ate at my favorite sushi place in the whole wide world: Mikimoto

  • Forgot that places in New Orleans like Target can sell liquor, beer, and wine!

  • Celebrated New Years 2019 in NOLA with family and friends

NOLA family

Casper, Wyoming

Casper, Wyoming

Finally settled in Wyoming in February 2019

wyHOMEing: Live and Let Live


The state’s motto: Live and let live. Eight years in Wyoming and it always feels cozy to come back to the frozen, tundra like state. Winters here are tough and it has definitely made me a stronger person because of it. Without this beautiful place and space, I wouldn’t have had all the travel adventures in the books. I find myself complaining less and less about the snow and 60+ mph winds. I truly love this state and the people I’ve met while living here. It’s been a place that keeps me balanced and grounded.

Back home and taking care of business

  • Being a good Vietnamese daughter doing first generation tasks like: finding care insurance for the family, dealing with medical bills, cleaning up health insurance mix ups, picking up lil brother from school, calling up Verizon for bill related issues, learning to set up about investments and IRAs, YA KNOW….

  • Applying for ANY & ALL environmental & conservation positions

  • Getting back to fitness, health, and well-being

  • Braces

  • Marie Kondo-ing all of my belongings

  • Hustling and saving for my next adventure

Being settled into my own space and having my own car are the two biggest joys in my life. The feeling of independence and control over my life are things I do not take for granted. Honestly, now that I’m back I realized I needed to come back. Wyoming still has a lot to teach me in terms of emotional, spiritual, and mental growth. (that’s for the next blog post)

Wyoming will blow you away


As you can see, I have many places I call “home”. It’s a feeling rather than a specific physical boundary of space. The various cities in Indonesia, Vietnam, Houston, New Orleans, Laramie, Casper….all places I’ve called home. Each home has had a profound impact on my life. I also lived in Singapore for about 5 months. (it was the highlight of my life/best decision I’ve ever made). No matter where I am, life has been so full of excitement and energy. It ebbs and flows. Right now, being back in Wyoming is a time to take a breath and focus on myself in a settled place. Decision making for things such as place to live or how I am going to get where I need to go, has been a huge weight off my shoulders. I am more grounded to focus on manifesting the next adventure.

Although I am not traveling at the moment,

Life has been the
greatest adventure yet!

Spending time and money on what you love is not a loss

It has officially been one week since Raja Ampat. I spent a stupid amount of hours for layover and delays, but well worth my dream trip. Although only 4 days of diving, it was soul satisfying to be back underwater. 

I spent nearly 2 days of travel and spent more than I would in a month on food in Indonesia and it was all worth it. When I spend time and money on scuba diving and traveling….I don’t see it as an expense. It’s self-care because this is EXACTLY what I want to do with my life. Until the day one of these nonprofits or NGOs finally hire me for marine conservation, I’ll be hustling to make this my everyday. Just like the friends I met in Raja Ampat, Indonesia!

Since moving to the direction of travel diaries, I wanna write about the conversations I had with a few of the people I met. I like traveling alone especially when scuba diving because I am in control of my schedule and activities. There are days when I want to dive and there are days I want to just lay on the beach. Also, when scuba diving, divers tend to be really friendly and always have a story about diving.

here’s my story from Raja Ampat:


I was inspired by an independent Indonesian woman with a successful scuba diving shop. She is a strong 40 year old woman living the life she intended. Diving everyday is a choice out of pure joy, not financial obligations. She saw Raja Ampat on TV, decided she wanted to go, and 9 years later still living there and running a successful business....the only thing she misses from home is her momma. She talked about how Raja Ampat in prior years had so many whales passing through, but she hasn't seen a whale this year yet. She's had to move her business a couple times, but she possess a non-attachment and ability to pick up and start over attitude that I have too. I felt a sigh of relief for my future when I met her. 

Her business partner has a similar story. He saw Raja Ampat on TV, decided to move from a landlocked city in Java to Bali to learn how to be a scuba diving instructor. He made his way to Raja Ampat and doing exactly what he wanted. 

We had a conversation about Indonesian's body structure and western body structures. Indonesian have a hard time floating, while my Dutch friend and I need 4kg weights to sink. I got a good laugh at Sandy's reenactment of trying to pass the floating test for his scuba license. 

And it's stories like these, which is the main reason for travel. Meeting Indonesians and listening to their stories breaks all the stereotypical images the media portrays.  

This is miniscubaThao. Once I get some super glue for all her pieces, She's going to go scuba diving with me too.

This is miniscubaThao. Once I get some super glue for all her pieces, She's going to go scuba diving with me too.

There's no limit to what you can achieve

When there's a pause or delay, use that time to chase one of the many other dreams you have. I am currently waiting on research permits and official letters to come around. Until then, I just booked the trip of my dreams. Going to where Nat Geo and other documentaries have filmed and I am going to experiences these places with my own eyes. Raja Ampat, here I come. 

rj di r4

beauty beyond measure

a friend who inspires me to chase my wildest dreams @raymondjakub

Why I'm in Indonesia?

Back in 2012, I did a study abroad in Singapore for one semester. Til this day, I still believe that was one of the best decisions I've ever made in my life. I took full advantage of Singapore's international airport to hop all around Southeast Asia. Unknowingly, I ended up making 3 separate trips to Indonesia.... Pulau BIntan because it was a short ferry ride away to chill on a beach with friends. Bali...because it's Bali and I got to scuba dive with manta rays. Pulau Weh in Sumatra to get my advanced open water certification.

If you haven't caught on my now.... I LOVE SCUBA DIVING. One of the greatest lesson's I learned in grad school is how to turn my passion and hobbies into research. Thanks to some incredible advisors, hours of re-writing my proposal, and a bit of luck....I'm back in Indonesia for the 5th time and this time... as a Fulbright Student Researcher. Researching the Indonesian perception about their marine protected areas. I get to do all the things I love: reading, writing, making connections and hearing people's stories, and scuba diving in some of the world's coveted underwater ecosystems. 






Phuket, Thailand 2017

The best way to spend the last day of 2017.

Thank Goodness Square Space was invented

Research does pay off.

Looking for something in between Blogger (not pretty, but easy to start) and Wordpress (gorgeous themes, but code by yourself). 

I FOUND SQUARE SPACE. Thanks to a couple friends like & Lisa Miles for telling me about it. 

I am in love with the customization, simple design, and almost intuitive design process. 

I finally feel ready to get moving on creating content and tell you some stories about traveling in Southeast Asia, scuba diving, and living in Indonesia.... all through the lens of a Vietnamese-American living the dream she's always wanted. #manifestthelifeyouwant

Let's get it

taken in Malaysia